Can Adding Value Hurt Trust?

I had an all-too-familiar experience yesterday at a drive-through oil change shop.

It started with just an oil change — the service I’d actually come for.

Then came the suggestions:

  • “You’re due for an oil system flush.” (I agreed)
  • “Your fluids are low.” (Sure, top them up)
  • “Your air filter is dirty.” (Fine, let’s replace it)
  • “Your wiper blades are worn.” (Erm, okay…)

By the time she suggested a coolant flush and a pricey replacement radiator cap (mine could start leaking, y’know!), I was starting to feel like I was being taken for a ride.

What had started as a $69.99 oil change was quickly becoming a $300+ service.

Was this value-adding or predatory upselling?

The line is remarkably thin, and I’m reminded of this constantly in my product strategy work.

I once had a client who manufactured an air purifier that required multiple expensive consumables — several filters that needed frequent replacement and proprietary parts, microchipped to prevent generic replacements.

From the CMO’s perspective, this was BRILLIANT: predictable, high-margin recurring revenue from each unit sold. Their financial projections looked spectacular.

But the customer reviews told a different story. Folks felt ambushed by the unexpected ongoing costs. What seemed like a reasonable initial purchase became an expensive commitment they had NOT knowingly signed up for.

Trust was broken, and the brand suffered.

In I Need That, I discuss how successful products create what I call the Coveted Condition™ — a specific future state buyers imagine achieving through ownership.

But there’s a critical corollary: the path to that Coveted Condition must feel fair and transparent.

Product Payoff: Costco’s tire center has mastered the balance between upselling and trust-building. When you purchase tires, they include free lifetime rotation, balancing, nitrogen tire inflation and flat repair — services competitors charge for. This seemingly profit-reducing move actually drives their tire business because customers feel the relationship is fair.

Action for today: Audit your revenue model through the “trust lens.” Ask:

  1. Are all potential costs visible to customers before purchase?
  2. Do your upsells genuinely solve customer problems, or primarily serve your profit margins?
  3. Would customers still feel the initial purchase was fair if they understood the full lifetime cost?

Remember: The most profitable customer is rarely the one you extract maximum value from once — it’s the one who TRUSTS you enough to come back again and again.

What is your experience in balancing profitability with customer trust? Tap that never-overwhelming reply arrow and tell me.

Or reach out anytime to my team of product marketing strategists at Graphos Product.