
Almost everything we call a “need” is a story our mind learned to believe.
In I Need That, I talk about how quickly our definition of “need” shifts.
Indoor plumbing was once a luxury … not all that long ago.
My grandparents’ farm still had an outhouse and a hand-pump well when I was a kid.
And they felt perfectly satisfied.
Air-conditioning used to be something you bragged about until the 1990s.
Today even the cheapest cars include it because if you live somewhere hot, you need that.
But notice what happened there.
Nothing about human physiology changed.
Only our expectations did.
Marketing reshapes these expectations constantly.
Globalization amplifies them.
What once felt extravagant becomes the new baseline.
More features, more convenience, more comfort … until “ordinary life” quietly inflates into something previous generations would’ve called decadent.
This is the strange power product makers work with:
You’re not selling survival, folks.
You’re selling a mental construct: an idea of “what people like me should have.”
And that’s not being manipulative.
It’s reality.
When you understand it, you can position your product more honestly and more strategically.
Show how your product fits the evolving definition of an ordinary life.
Show how it upgrades the baseline.
Show how it becomes the new expectation.
Today’s luxury becomes tomorrow’s obvious choice the moment enough people believe the story.
Want to make your product irresistible? That’s what we do as product marketing consultants at Graphos Product, helping innovators turn need-driven ideas into market-ready successes.